Most compassionate people split their energy out of good intention, but end up suffering as the result. You’ll understand HOW as you read this. Divide and conquer strategy is proven to be effective in defeating the strongest countries. It breaks [...]
The word “power” is often equated with money, social status, sphere of influence, or physical strength. These represent the outer attributes of achievement or capacity to impose physical force. True power is a character trait, not a social status or a position of authority. And it’s dangerous to assume that a possession of material wealth or a successful career equals power. This perception keeps people in fear and forces the to comply. It’s time we set the record straight and re-define what power really means.
Have you noticed that most people try to avoid criticism? That's because criticim triggers one of the biggest human fears – the fear of rejection. Yet, the majority believes that criticism can be constructive. After decades of studying human behavior [...]
“How can I come from a place of profound love and care and be received as a proponent of rape and violence?” My logical mind was failing to make sense of the stream of critical comments to my article
There’s a woman in your life you care about. You want to be there for her and be a man she deserves. You want to love her and give her the world, but you are not sure she is open to receive it… She wants you to be a man and take charge. But she also wants you to be sensitive and gentle. She gives you mixed signals and gets upset--even when you do what you think she wants! You’re afraid to offend her by being too forceful or aggressive. So you honor her boundaries, and she loses her interest. Or you remain persistent, and it becomes too much for her and she pushes you away… What’s up with that? Can you ever WIN with her and get it right? 3 Secrets to Unlocking a Woman’s Heart and Conquering Her Defenses:
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by your life’s circumstances? You want to soar in freedom and reach your dream destinations, but you feel confined by the situation, like an caged bird. It gets exhausting, frustrating, and you don’t know what to do... I’ve been there many times, and I know firsthand how to navigate the maze, even if all you see is walls. I help my clients to get out of the dead-ended perceptions and operate on a whole new level, where conditions in their lives have no power. The truth is, many of your life’s situations you cannot change: If your lover left, you can’t make him fall in love with you and come back. If your boss is micromanaging, you can’t alter his approach. If your spouse is not supportive, you can’t make him/her to cooperate. You can’t even make your own children do everything you say… Funny enough, we still try. When attempting to change people and circumstances yields unsustainable results, we get stressed and tired, feel disappointed and powerless… The SECRET to True FREEDOM
Have you ever been surprised or discouraged by unexpected animosity from people? It may stun you: You approach them with sincerity and an open heart, and they lash out at you with anger or criticism. Perhaps you offer them help and support, and they snap back at you with accusations. Something you should know…
In our daily lives we race to make more money, to meet a person who will love us, to raise children or to fulfill our ambitions believing that these things will grant us happiness. When someone who seemingly has it all---fame, fortune, family, friends, talent… you name it---takes his own life out of depression, it makes you wonder if maybe happiness is dependent on more than the external conditions in our lives.
Most people struggle in their relationships, because we are not educated on how to establish healthy communication. Instead, we adopt the patterns of behavior which we observe in others – parents, friends, media, etc. – and unintentionally turn their heartbreaks into our own. Every relationship has a fine line, which, once crossed, leads to the point of no return – eventual breakup. In my working with clients from all over the world, I have detected 3 common patterns that seem innocent, but, in truth, are absolutely detrimental to relationships and should be avoided at all costs