There’s a woman in your life you care about. You want to be there for her and be a man she deserves. You want to love her and give her the world, but you are not sure she is open to receive it… She wants you to be a man and take charge. But she also wants you to be sensitive and gentle. She gives you mixed signals and gets upset--even when you do what you think she wants! You’re afraid to offend her by being too forceful or aggressive. So you honor her boundaries, and she loses her interest. Or you remain persistent, and it becomes too much for her and she pushes you away… What’s up with that? Can you ever WIN with her and get it right? 3 Secrets to Unlocking a Woman’s Heart and Conquering Her Defenses:
When I was in kindergarten, my father told me: “If someone tries to hurt you, grab the heaviest object around and hit them over the head.” Now, that’s quite an unusual advice to give to your little girl. I remember protesting and saying “What if I kill them?” He said “You worry about that later, if someone endangers you - you protect yourself!” “But I am a girl!” I gasped. “Exactly, and you need to be able to stand up for yourself.” As harsh and unusual as this advice was, it served me tremendously throughout life. In fact, I remember clearly two instances when I had to apply it.
Seduction is a mental arousal which occurs between the lines of your communication. The hottest quality of a lover is authenticity. The courage to be bold in expressing your desires and your confidence, which allows you to remain unattached to the outcome create an irresistible combination.