“How can I come from a place of profound love and care and be received as a proponent of rape and violence?” My logical mind was failing to make sense of the stream of critical comments to my article
There’s a woman in your life you care about. You want to be there for her and be a man she deserves. You want to love her and give her the world, but you are not sure she is open to receive it… She wants you to be a man and take charge. But she also wants you to be sensitive and gentle. She gives you mixed signals and gets upset--even when you do what you think she wants! You’re afraid to offend her by being too forceful or aggressive. So you honor her boundaries, and she loses her interest. Or you remain persistent, and it becomes too much for her and she pushes you away… What’s up with that? Can you ever WIN with her and get it right? 3 Secrets to Unlocking a Woman’s Heart and Conquering Her Defenses:
Do you ever feel overwhelmed by your life’s circumstances? You want to soar in freedom and reach your dream destinations, but you feel confined by the situation, like an caged bird. It gets exhausting, frustrating, and you don’t know what to do... I’ve been there many times, and I know firsthand how to navigate the maze, even if all you see is walls. I help my clients to get out of the dead-ended perceptions and operate on a whole new level, where conditions in their lives have no power. The truth is, many of your life’s situations you cannot change: If your lover left, you can’t make him fall in love with you and come back. If your boss is micromanaging, you can’t alter his approach. If your spouse is not supportive, you can’t make him/her to cooperate. You can’t even make your own children do everything you say… Funny enough, we still try. When attempting to change people and circumstances yields unsustainable results, we get stressed and tired, feel disappointed and powerless… The SECRET to True FREEDOM
Have you ever been surprised or discouraged by unexpected animosity from people? It may stun you: You approach them with sincerity and an open heart, and they lash out at you with anger or criticism. Perhaps you offer them help and support, and they snap back at you with accusations. Something you should know…
In the Inner Garden lived an amazing Rose It dreamed of blooming and produced a perfect bud It wanted to be the most beautiful flower ever seen Silky petals were tightly squeezed together Waiting to burst and spread their vibrant flesh
There is no doubt that there are insecure women out there who try to manipulate men and play games which prevents them from experiencing deep intimacy and fulfillment. However, an evolved man is unlikely to devote to a woman like that. Your partner is ALWAYS your mirror. An evolved woman knows God in her man and doesn’t settle to accept a mediocre version of him.
Men are naturally driven to be victorious. Many have championed the battles in business or sports, but when it comes to winning the heart of a chosen woman they wane. The brave heart, who can come out triumphant out of life’s toughest challenges, gets disarmed and disabled when his woman is irrational, unhappy, emotional or complaining. Conquering a woman is similar to conquering natural forces – try to surmount wind, ocean or fire. A woman’s heart and soul are sacred treasures; they are precious, very delicate and vulnerable. Therefore, the heart of a woman is hidden and surrounded by thick barriers. It is guarded by huge walls of distrust, insecurities, doubt, disbelief and concern. It wants to be liberated to express itself fully; it wants to shine and create more life and love.